Mummy
Marry first, tell everyone later? You are inviting a family emergency with wedding sweets and no announcement.
Family Verdict
Family Panic Detected
I want to marry someone before telling the extended family.
Family Group Chat
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Dad
Bold strategy. Half the family will call it efficient; the other half will call it a plot with terrible timing.
Gen Z Person
So you want the wedding and the surprise reveal in one package? That is chaos with a bow on it.
Uncle
I once heard of this working beautifully, right up until the uncle group chat discovered it at lunch.
Auntie Social Chat
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Sunita Aunty
He wants the whole wedding settled quietly, then stroll in with the news like a fresh new leaf.
Kiran Aunty
A fresh new leaf? More like arriving with garlands in one pocket and a family lecture in the other.
Meena Aunty
That lecture in the other pocket is exactly what will spill out before the tea cools.
Rejected after extensive lecturing. Marry after the key people know, or prepare for a very loud post-wedding conference.
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